Belle Starr - Near Porum, OK
Posted by: Groundspeak Premium Member QuarrellaDeVil
N 35° 18.127 W 095° 20.279
15S E 287421 N 3909053
The grave of "Bandit Queen" Belle Starr is in the woods at Younger's Bend, about seven miles southwest of Porum, OK. She lived here in a cabin until she was murdered in 1889.
Waymark Code: WMMCYH
Location: Oklahoma, United States
Date Posted: 09/02/2014
Published By:Groundspeak Regular Member Manville Possum
Views: 17

The Handbook of Texas Online has a fairly comprehensive biography, only fitting that her career took her in and out of Texas, and her first husband is buried in a pauper's grave in McKinney, TX. Scyene, TX, is now part of Dallas, with Scyene Road serving as a reminder of its presence. (visit link)

Belle Starr, also known as the "Bandit Queen" and the subject of much speculation in innumerable stories and popular publications, was born Myra Maybelle (or Belle) Shirley on February 5, 1848, on a farm near Carthage, Missouri, one of six children and the only daughter of John and Elizabeth (or Eliza) (Hatfield) Shirley. Within a few years, the Shirleys moved into Carthage, where they were living when the Civil War started. Young May, as the family called her, probably attended Carthage Female Academy and a private school, Cravens, in Carthage. Her father became a prosperous innkeeper and slaveholder. Sympathizers with the Southern cause and supporters of Confederate irregulars such as the raider William Clarke Quantrill, the Shirleys were apparently pleased when their oldest son, John (or Bud), joined a squad of bushwhackers in bloody reprisals along the Missouri-Kansas border. Whether his death in this activity influenced Belle Shirley's direction in life, as some have speculated, is not certain. By 1864, after Carthage was burned, the family had migrated to Scyene, Texas, near Dallas. There in July 1866 Cole, Jim, Bob, and John Younger and Jesse James, Missouri outlaws who had ridden with Quantrill, used the Shirley home as a hideout. Belle Shirley's relationship with Cole Younger is the subject of many stories, some of which claim that her daughter Rosie Lee, often called Pearl Younger, was his child. He denied it; the likely father was a desperado named Jim Reed, whom Shirley had known in Missouri. She and Reed married on November 1, 1866. Rosie Lee was born in 1868.

For a while the Reeds lived in Indian Territory at the home of outlaw Tom Starr, a Cherokee. After Reed was charged with murder, they went to Los Angeles, probably where their son James Edwin (Ed) was born on February 22, 1871. They returned to Texas when Reed's murder charges caught up with him later that year. After their return, Reed became involved with the Younger, James, and Starr gangs, which killed and looted throughout Texas, Arkansas, and Indian Territory. Accounts differ as to Belle Reed's participation in these activities. At least one claims that she disapproved of Reed's actions; more suggest that she operated a livery barn in Dallas where she sold the horses Reed stole. At one point, however, she more than likely moved her children to live with her relatives. There are apparently no records that Belle Reed was ever involved in murder, the robbery of trains, banks, or stagecoaches, or in cattle rustling. Reed robbed the Austin-San Antonio stage in April 1874, and though there is no evidence that Belle Reed participated, she was named as an accessory in the indictment. Jim Reed was killed by a deputy sheriff at Paris, Texas, in August 1874; the story that Belle refused to identify his body in order to prevent the sheriff from claiming the reward is apocryphal.

In 1878 Belle Reed appears to have married Bruce Younger, perhaps in Coffeyville, Kansas. If that relationship existed, it soured, and she married Sam Starr in the Cherokee Nation on June 5, 1880. Belle and Sam Starr were later charged with horse stealing, a federal offense, and Belle received two six-month terms at the House of Correction in Detroit, Michigan. After this experience Belle Starr came to be known as the Bandit Queen. In 1886 she was again charged with horse theft. This time, because of her legal skills, she was acquitted, but in the meantime her husband and an Indian policeman had shot each other to death. Belle Starr subsequently took several lovers, including Jim July (or Jim Starr), Blue Duck, Jack Spaniard, and Jim French. She survived all but two of the men she lived with. On February 3, 1889, while Starr was living in the Choctaw Nation, near the Canadian River, an unknown assassin killed her in an ambush with a shotgun. Although many killers have been suggested, two men remain the primary suspects in the murder. One, Edgar Watson, could have killed her for threatening to turn him in to authorities for murder. The second was Belle Starr's son, Ed, whom she had recently beaten for mistreating her horse. No one was ever convicted. Belle Starr was largely unknown outside the Cherokee Nation, Dallas, and parts of Arkansas when she died. Soon, however, newspaper reports of her death were picked up by Richard K. Fox, the publisher of the National Police Gazette. When he published Bella Starr, the Bandit Queen, or the Female Jesse James (1889), a twenty-five-cent novel based loosely on her life, the legends began. Belle Starr was buried at Younger's Bend, a remote place on the Canadian River where she often lived. Her daughter later erected a headstone engraved with a bell, a star, and a horse, purchased with earnings she made in a brothel.

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The headstone referenced was destroyed by vandals over the years -- a photo of it is here (visit link) -- and evidence of their activities is still visible on her faux crypt. A replacement stone was placed a few years ago when the gravesite was restored, and even up close, it can be difficult to read. It says:

Belle Starr

Born in Carthage, Mo.
Feb. 5, 1848,

Died
Feb. 3, 1889.

Shed not for her the bitter tear,
Nor give the heart to vain regret.
'Tis but the casket that lies here,
The gem that filled it sparkles yet.
Description:
For many years, the gravesite was neglected, and the cabin that she occupied here was torn down in 1933. It required some work and lot of bug spray to find the gravesite, but in recent years, the property has new owners, and they have rebuilt the cabin. There is an Oklahoma Historical Marker that makes the site easy to find, and there is an unimproved trail that requires just a few minutes of walking to reach Belle's gravesite. Please, no visits outside of daylight hours, no visits during deer or turkey hunting season, and no visits on Halloween (?!). The site is open to the public, but remember, this is private land, visit at your own risk. Many suggest that bug spray is still a good thing to bring along, lest you run into ticks.


Date of birth: 02/05/1848

Date of death: 02/03/1889

Area of notoriety: Crime

Marker Type: Headstone

Setting: Outdoor

Visiting Hours/Restrictions: Daylight hours only. No visits on Halloween or during deer/turkey hunting season.

Fee required?: No

Web site: [Web Link]

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